September 2004
THE MISSING LINK IN PARENTING PROGRAMMES
Scottish Marriage Care today called for
relationship skills to be included in parenting
programmes. Speaking after being awarded funding
from The Camelot Foundation for a young parents
project in Easterhouse, Scottish Marriage Care's
Research & Development Officer, Jo Field,
said: "There is now strong evidence that it
is not only what parents do with a child that
matters, but also how the parents behave with
each other. "Even if the parents are no
longer together, the relationship between them
still counts."
Research shows that children whose parents have
a troubled relationship, and fail to resolve
conflicts successfully, have problems at home and
at school. Couples are particularly
vulnerable to relationship difficulties after the
birth of a child. This is the time when
relationship satisfaction tends to fall and
conflict rises. Helping new parents with relationship
issues was shown to reduce conflict in the
parents' partnership. This reduction in tension
greatly improves the quality of parenting. This is good for
children's academic and social development.
Most parenting programmes focus on the
mother-child or father-child relationship. But for
children, the main feature of their lives is the
relationship between the adults who look
after them. Field continues: "We all know
that good parenting is important. But there is
increasing evidence to suggest that good parenting
means parents should build good relationships with
each other, and with their children. This is what
makes children do well both intellectually and
emotionally."
For further information, please contact:
Johanna Field, Research & Development
Officer
Scottish Marriage Care, 72 Waterloo Street, Glasgow G2 7DA
Phone:0141-222 2166
Fax: 0141-222 2144
E-mail: Info@ScottishMarriageCare.org
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