13 December 2006
Christmas can be hard
Christmas is a magical time of year. But the
pressure placed on couples and parents during the
festive season can easily result in relationship
breakdown, especially if the relationship is
already at breaking point.
Family support charity Scottish Marriage Care
experiences a substantial increase in the number
of people seeking its expert relationship and
counselling services in January, it's single
busiest month. The increase is even more marked as
December is traditionally the lowest month for
clients seeking SMC's services.
"The demand for relationship services is
significant in January. I think people are placed
under enormous pressure during the Christmas
period and any number of factors can cause the
relationship to breakdown in the post-Christmas
period," said SMC Chief Executive Mary Toner.
"In the weeks leading up to Christmas many
people struggle with deciding what gifts to buy,
battling with the multitude of other shoppers and
combating the winter weather. Added to this is the
stress of how to manage our time and the financial
implications of Christmas which can carry though
to the New Year."
A recent survey of 1,500 low-income parents
confirmed that the financial burden of the
Christmas period put relationships under pressure.
The survey found almost 20 percent of parents felt
the financial implications of the festive season
affected the parent-child relationship and almost
one third felt it affected their relationship with
their partner.
The Christmas period can be especially
difficult for stepfamilies with t he pressure to
divide time evenly amongst new family units. This
can be exacerbated if the parents were not able to
achieve an amicable split.
To help couples survive the festive season and
mange their relationship issues over the holidays
SMC have come up with some 'top tips':
- Be realistic with goals and
expectations.
- Communicate. Don't expect your partner to
know what you want.
- Relax. Accept all the ups and downs as part
of Christmas.
- Call a truce over the holiday period and set
ground rules.
- Make some New Year resolutions for your
relationship.
For further information, please contact:
Mary Toner, Chief Executive
Scottish Marriage Care, 72 Waterloo Street, Glasgow G2 7DA
Phone:0141-222 2166
Fax: 0141-222 2144
E-mail: Info@ScottishMarriageCare.org
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