6 November 2006
'Open' marriages
Most Briton's are monogamous and encouraging
your partner to have an affair or relationship
with another person can cause relationship
problems according to family support charity
Scottish Marriage Care.
SMC Chief Executive Mary Toner said that 'open'
marriages as discussed by The Scotsman and The
Daily Record today, were rare but couples who
identified fidelity as a problem or symptom of a
deeper problem survive adultery if they worked
through their problems.
"Most couples who make a commitment to
each other make it an exclusive commitment. You do
hear of these kinds of relationships but in my
experience it is very much a minority and
infidelity almost always has a devastating effect
on a relationship."
The first global survey of sexual behaviour,
published in The Lancet last week, revealed
that societal concerns about rising promiscuity
were unfounded. The most recent data from the
Office of National Statistics also concluded that
monogamy was still the dominant pattern of
behaviour in Britain.
Almost 11,000 divorces are granted each year in
Scotland and family breakdown is estimated to cost
the Scottish economy £1.5billion each year.
Counselling has long been identified as a key
factor in relationship resolution.
Nationally, adultery features poorly as a
reason for divorce. Official figures for 2005 show
only three percent of divorces were due to
adultery with non-cohabitation as the most
prevalent reason, account for 85 percent. Only
17.5 percent of clients seeking services from SMC
identified adultery as a reason for relationship
problems.
For further information, please contact:
April Mitchinson, Research and Communications
Manager
Scottish Marriage Care, 72 Waterloo Street, Glasgow G2 7DA
Phone:0141-222 2166
Fax: 0141-222 2144
E-mail: Info@ScottishMarriageCare.org
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