FOCCUS is a relationship inventory for couples who are planning to marry or cohabit. It is based upon current knowledge about the key elements in a successful marriage and aims to help couples learn more about themselves and their unique relationship.

The FOCCUS relationship inventory is not a pass or fail test, neither does it predict marital success or failure. Instead, FOCCUS is a supportive, helpful, positive process for couples to do before they enter into a committed relationship.

Furthermore, research shows that taking part in a pre-marriage programme such as FOCCUS can improve a couple's communication, conflict management skills and overall relationship quality.

Planned the wedding but not the marriage? Maybe it's time to FOCCUS.

Step 1

On the first visit you will both meet with a FOCCUS Facilitator and be asked to complete the FOCCUS inventory separately. The questionnaire contains 189 statements about your relationship. It covers a range of topics and issues, e.g. lifestyle expectations, friends and interests, personality match, personal issues, communication, problem solving, religion and values, parenting issues, extended family issues, sexual issues, financial issues, readiness issues, dual careers.

This session lasts about one hour. You will then be given an appointment to return, usually about one to two weeks later.

Step 2

On your return visit, the FOCCUS Facilitator will have had your questionnaires processed. Questionnaires are processed in such a way as to give you an individual profile of your unique relationship. The second visit consists of a one hour confidential session with your facilitator to discuss your unique couple profile. The facilitator will work with you to look at patterns in your responses and identify positive areas in your relationship. They will also highlight issues for discussion and areas where you could work on developing the relationship.

The full FOCCUS service costs £50 per couple.